Frequently Asked Questions
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Kokun supports au pairs and the families who host them, helping both sides navigate the experience with clarity, confidence and care.
Whether you've found each other through Kokun, another agency or independently, we're here to help you build a safe, successful and rewarding experience.
For host families, Kokun provides the practical support needed to create and maintain well-structured, compliant and positive au pair arrangements, including employment guidance, payroll support, resources and ongoing HR advice.
For au pairs, our free Facebook community offers a place to connect with others across Australia, access practical guidance, ask questions and feel supported as they settle into life in Australia.
Because a great au pair experience isn't just about finding the right match. It's about helping both sides thrive once the journey begins.
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Kokun is for au pairs coming to Australia and the families who host them.
Host families can use Kokun whether they need help finding an au pair, have matched through another agency, or have found someone independently. We provide the practical, employment and ongoing support needed to create a positive, well-structured and compliant arrangement.
Au pairs can join the free Kokun Community for practical guidance, connection with other au pairs and support settling into life in Australia.
In short, Kokun is for anyone who wants more than just a match. It is for families and au pairs who want the experience to work well in real life.
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That depends on what you're looking for.
Traditional au pair agencies primarily focus on matching families with au pairs.
Kokun can do that too, but it's only one part of what we offer.
Our focus is on helping families and au pairs build a safe, successful and rewarding experience from start to finish. That means we can help you find the right match, but we are also your HR department in your pocket - supporting you with payroll, insurance, practical guidance, education and ongoing support throughout the arrangement.
If you've already found an au pair or host family independently (or through another agency), we're just as happy to help. Many of our members come to us after they've matched because they want confidence that the arrangement is set up properly and someone to turn to if questions arise.
Finding the right match is important. Making the relationship work is where Kokun adds the greatest value.
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No. Some families come to Kokun after they've already found an au pair, while others ask us to help them find one. We can support families either way.
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Yes. Many Kokun members find their au pair or host family independently.
Kokun can provide guidance, resources, and support regardless of how the placement was arranged.
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Au pair arrangements are often described as a cultural exchange, but in Australia the legal position can be more complex.
Where an au pair works regular hours, performs childcare duties and is paid for that work, the arrangement will often be considered employment under Australian law. That can bring obligations around minimum pay, tax, superannuation, workers' compensation insurance and other employment requirements.
Many families and au pairs aren't aware of these obligations because much of the information available online is inconsistent, overseas-focused or reflects how au pair programs operate in other countries rather than Australia.
Kokun helps families and au pairs understand how these arrangements typically operate in Australia. We provide practical guidance, employment documentation and ongoing support to help create arrangements that are clear, compliant and positive for everyone involved.
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Yes. Kokun provides practical resources, guidance and ongoing support to help families host with clarity and confidence.
Host Families have access to a growing library of practical resources, including:
guided completion of employment and accommodation agreements
onboarding guides and checklists
house manuals and schedules
practical guidance on communication, expectations and boundaries
information about employment, payroll and insurance requirements
Families also have access to the Kokun Host Families WhatsApp group and regular Office Hours, where they can ask questions and receive ongoing HR support throughout the placement.
Our goal is to help families create well-structured, positive and compliant arrangements from the outset, while giving them confidence that support is available whenever they need it.
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Not every au pair placement goes to plan. Sometimes expectations don't align, circumstances change, or challenges arise that are difficult to resolve.
That's why Kokun is designed to provide support before issues become bigger problems.
Our employment agreements and practical resources are designed to set clear expectations from the outset. Host Families also have access to ongoing HR support through the Kokun Host Families WhatsApp group and regular Office Hours, giving them somewhere to ask questions and seek guidance as situations arise.
Where challenges do occur, we can help both au pairs and host families understand their options, navigate difficult conversations and work towards a positive outcome.
Sometimes that means getting the placement back on track.
Sometimes it means ending the arrangement respectfully and helping both sides move forward with confidence.
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The Kokun Community is a free Facebook community designed to help au pairs settle into life in Australia with confidence.
Members receive:
practical guides and resources covering everything from preparing for Australia to everyday life once you arrive
curated information on working as an au pair, Australian culture and common questions
advice and tips from the Kokun team
the opportunity to connect with other au pairs across Australia
updates about Kokun events, workshops and meetups
Whether you're preparing to arrive or have already landed, the Kokun Community is a place to ask questions, find reliable information and connect with others who are sharing the same experience.
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Kokun's pricing depends on the level of support you need.
If you've already found an au pair, our Set Up & Onboarding service is $195. We'll help you establish your arrangement with confidence, including preparing your employment and accommodation agreements, setting up payroll, providing compliance guidance and giving you access to the Kokun Host Family Hub.
If you'd like us to help you find an au pair, our Placement Service is $1,750. This is payable as:
a $295 Search Engagement Fee to commence the search; and
$1,455, payable only once you've successfully matched with an au pair.
Placement clients do not pay the separate Set Up & Onboarding fee.
Once your au pair starts, Host Families join Kokun Membership for $35 per week for the duration of the placement. Membership includes:
payroll administration through Pay The Nanny
continued access to the Host Family Hub
ongoing HR guidance and practical support including probation check ins
access to the Kokun Host Families WhatsApp group
regular Kokun Office Hours
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Getting started with Kokun is simple.
If you're an au pair, join the free Kokun Community to access practical guidance, connect with other au pairs across Australia and find reliable information to help you settle into life in Australia.
If you're a host family, explore our Host Family membership. We'll guide you through setting up your au pair arrangement, help you prepare your employment and accommodation agreements, support you with payroll and employment requirements, and provide ongoing HR support throughout the placement.
Whether you're still looking for an au pair or have already found the right match, Kokun is here to help you create a positive, well-structured and compliant arrangement from day one.
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The $35 weekly Host Family Support fee begins on your au pair's employment commencement date and continues until the arrangement ends. It covers your payroll administration fees, continued hub access, and our team's availability for ongoing advice and support throughout the duration of your au pair's stay.
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If your au pair has been referred by one of Kokun's agency or referral partners, your setup process may differ. We'll let you know exactly what's included before you get started.
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Generally, no. Most host families employ an au pair as private individuals rather than operating a business, so an ABN is not usually required simply because you're an employer.
That said, you'll still have a number of employer obligations, which may include registering for PAYG withholding, withholding tax from your au pair's wages, arranging workers' compensation insurance, paying superannuation (where applicable), and keeping appropriate employment records.
Kokun will guide you through these requirements as part of your onboarding.
Still Have Questions?
If you’re not sure whether Kokun is the right fit, or you’d like to understand support options better, reach out. You don’t have to do this alone, and you don’t have to have it all figured out first.