A woman walking outside on a sunny day, carrying a suitcase, wearing a beige trench coat, a white blouse, blue jeans, and a straw hat with a black band. She is smiling and looking at the camera, with greenery and a stone wall in the background.

The Kokun Community

Built for the trad au pair experience

Coming to Australia to live with a host family, care for their children and experience life somewhere new?

That's what we call the trad au pair experience - and we still think there's something pretty special about it.

The Kokun Community is a free, private and moderated community for au pairs across Australia to connect, ask questions, share experiences, make friends and get more from their time here.

Many au pair communities are only available to au pairs placed through a particular agency. We believe every au pair deserves access to community, support and reliable information, regardless of how they found their host family.

Think of it as your mum-away-from-mum, plus a group of people navigating the same adventure alongside you.

Not quite what you had in mind? Au pairing doesn’t have to mean moving countries or cultural exchange.

Three young women and one young man sitting on brick stairs outside, engaged in conversation, enjoying sunny weather, with greenery and a brick wall in the background.

A community that starts before you arrive.

Moving to Australia should feel exciting - not lonely.

Join before you arrive and start connecting with other au pairs, asking questions and learning what life in Australia is really like.

Inside the community

  • Connect with au pairs across Australia

  • Find travel buddies and weekend plans

  • Ask questions about life in Australia

  • Learn from people who have already been through it

  • Join occasional online workshops and community events

  • Understand your rights and entitlements

  • Access practical resources and guides

Coming soon

We're growing the Kokun Community beyond connection and support.

Members will have access to Kokun events and a growing collection of opportunities, useful services and offers from carefully selected partners, chosen because they're genuinely relevant to au pairs living, working and exploring Australia.

Person holding an open travel guidebook with images of Perth and CJK on the pages, viewed from above.

Start your trad au pair adventure with support.

Moving overseas should feel exciting, not overwhelming.

Join a community that understands exactly what you're going through.

Our free guide covers the essential things au pairs should know before arriving in Australia - practical tips, cultural insights and things people often only learn once they arrive.

Enter your email and we’ll send the guide directly to you.


Hear from other au pairs

“I never knew how my pay was meant to work until I found Kokun. Clarity, advice on how to have the hard conversations, and support without judgment or misinformation.”

Already working with a host family?

Access your onboarding course, arrival checklist, and everything you need to settle in.

Don’t arrive in Australia solo.